Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
So then maybe instead of giving your DH a list of rules you should give him a budget with and without the income from daycare.
Ask him again how he feels about it after he sees the monetary difference.
I thought about doing this. I will.
My bigger problem here is that I am taking it personally. By him not respecting the daycare, he is disrespecting me as a person as well. It has turned into a marriage problem now.