I've mentioned before that I don't like passive aggressive comments. I would point blank address the issue with dcm by stating that you noticed that she states that dcb gets hit/picked on/bit/whatever by your ds a lot and so you wanted to know if she is concerned. Maybe offer to form an "action plan" to address future squabbles. Maybe she needs to find a different daycare where she isn't stressing about your son potentially getting special treatment and you aren't stressing about her comments and dcb.

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