Originally Posted by tinytotzdaycare:
If it's your daycare rule, then be firm! 7pm is not too early a bed time though depending on when the child arrives at dc, I have 2 little ones that age that arrive at 4am They need to be in bed by 7pm but they still get a nap!
I would however offer to meet her in the middle, say....rest time is quiet time and if he falls alseep I will be sure to only let him sleep an hour. That way you both get what you want....sort of! 
Well, yeah ok if the kids are getting up at 3-4 am of course they're going to bed at 7. But I mean in situations where the parents drop the child off between 8-9am and know that their child takes a nap at daycare. It seems a little silly to me to expect a 4 year old who took a nap to go to bed at 7.