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jojosmommy 07:25 PM 10-04-2011
Maybe I am the only one, but I agree both with the OP and with Nannyde.

First I think its great that you chose to help this person out. And yes I have too been in the situation where I needed SOME income over NO income. Half of something is better that nothing.

Second I agree with Nannyde in that you have to remain open to the idea that she may never go back to paying you the full rate. She may later start using the "extra" money on herself which unless you make a very purposeful effort to keep that out of your mind could get in the way of your relationship.

Let's hope this mom is at home thanking the Lord for people like you. Really truly appreciative of what you have done. I think the kindness you are offering her is what is important- even if later on down the road you regret it. For now, thanks for helping someone out who needs it.
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