Tell them no toys or blankets from home. Tell them she doesn't want to come because she wants to be home. Tell them you have never met a kid who would want to be in a group away from home when they have the option to be home as the only child with one or two adults to serve their wants.

Ask them if they need daycare or not. If they do and want to continue with you then her not wanting to come is a family matter and you don't need to discuss it again. What you need them to do is to not bring ANYTHING from their car into your house but the child. They can bring it in the car if they like but it is not to come out of the car. If she protests at the car please pull out of the driveway until she is ready to come in without anything.

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