Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
Perfectly fine. 
Not sure why a topic that I feel strongly about equates to me not being okay but I'm just fine. Thanks for asking.
Vent: give free expression to (a strong emotion).
Judging: form an opinion or conclusion about.
Venting to me is letting off steam about YOU/YOUR situation (not someone else's) How you feel.
Judging to me is holding someone else to YOUR parameters. Expecting someone else to behave/react in the same way you would.
I see the two as completely different.
That's the beauty of this forum is we can have opposing views, the same views or slightly different views and we (for the most part lol) all get along and bounce stuff off each other respectfully. I didn't think you sounded like it was such a hot topic for you, just offering your opinion like the rest of us.