Originally Posted by NeedaVaca:
I wouldn't continue to let pickups get out of hand. Hand off at the door and let mom know it's becoming too disruptive.
As far as offering advice for home-no I wouldn't necessarily bring it up. However, if there was a conversation that happened on it's own you might have an opening. I tell parents how great DCK's are and often hear Really? They sure aren't like that at home! That would be a good opening to say well if you are interested in techniques I use, etc etc I would be happy to sit down with you to see if we can't get DCG on the same page at your house
That conversational approach makes sense.