You need to contact your licensing agency and file a complaint. There is a reason the Director is avoiding you and it appears she has something to hide. I would also be finding another child care arrangement, and I would not pay any fees associated with not providing notice of termination of care. I would also be finding out who they have liability insurance through and file a claim. If the Director is not speaking to you and you are unable to find out on your own, an attorney will certainly be able to obtain that information for you.
Personally, I wouldn't have tolerated the Director's lack of communication and transparency for nearly as long as you have. You are much more pateint than I
