Originally Posted by Lucy:
Listen, I respect the way you do things. I just can't see denying a basic need. I have parents say that they don't think their kids drink enough water, and would I push it. I can't imagine saying, "Oh no, if they ask me between meals, I say no." So it comes down to what we're comfortable with. It's all good! 
I do give between meals if they ask and I think many providers do that. but I dont leave cups of water out where anyone can grab at any time. If they ask, I will assist and supervise. and if a parent has a big concern, I will expect them to take the lead on this at home, not pawn it off on me. My kids have breakfast and dinner at home so the parents do more meals than I do, they can certainly "push water" at home.