I think that these posts should be mandatory reading for every person contemplating having children. I would never leave mine for any reason with anyone until the child could talk. Sell your car, live in smaller home, do whatever it takes to stay with your child. Think how "difficult" it is to parent perfectly your own child of two. Now imagine a roomful of sad, angry, lonely ,cranky, almost sick toddlers. How much "care" are those little sweeties receiving? The bratty naughty children get the most attention to prevent them from tearing up. Las room or hurting other children. I ve seen horrible day cares with ,"caretakers" screaming at children and wonderful preschools where the children go home at noon. Children under three need their parents or grandparents. Why would anyone do anything else but take care of their own. Don't have babies if you can't take care of them.

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