Originally Posted by Rockgirl:
He may not have to ask at home...everything might be just handed to him.
I model what I want them to say, and eventually they get it. If a toddler is pointing at his water cup, I say, “Drink, please.” I do give them the cup, but I encourage them to ask.
Personally, I wouldn’t withhold his food at meals—I would find other opportunities to teach him. Toys, books, joining in on activities, etc.
Oh I do agree about withholding food. I should clarify that I do give him the food I've just been holding it back for a bit to see if it would inspire him to communicate with me because food seems to be his biggest motivator but it's obviously not working and I could see how that would look bad. Thanks!