I agree with the previous poster. And I will add:
1. Stop caring for this child. It will not improve. Ever.
2. In your shoes, I would probably report to child protective services for child neglect. No baths? No nail cutting? Allowing bug bites to get so bad that he gets impetigo? All red flags to report.
3. Block the dad of Instagram and then make your Instagram a private account.
https://www.facebook.com/help/instag...6700567389543/ (Instructions). If you end care, block both parents (especially dad) numbers from calling your cell.
4. Look at licensing laws in your state and see how many kids you can care for. In my state, it's 1. The fines for going over 1 are $200 a day. You need to know the law. If any parent gets mad they can report you.
** Or maybe someone on here is from LA, and would know? I just looked to see if I could find a quick answer and the licensing laws are complicated! It looks like your state transferred family childcare administration to the department of education. Ugh! That sounds like something California would do. (Though I hope we don't)