Originally Posted by Ariana:
For me this would factor big time into telling her right away and it is what I would do. I could not in clear conscious do that to somebody. Finding care is a very difficukt situation and to ask her to find care twice under a false pretense is just not fair and isn't something I would feel comfortable doing 
(^bolding^ by me)
~Okay, I'm getting confused
. What is the false pretense and asking twice
?