Originally Posted by sharlan:
How would you have reacted if they showed up early without calling?
I had a grandparent leave 2 messages on my cell and 1 on my home phone last week to say they were keeping the child overnight and he wouldn't be there in the morning. All 3 calls were after 8. I greatly appreciated the fact that I didn't have to get up at 4AM to open the door for this child.
I think the op was more irritated that they assumed she should get back to them
immediately.. As if she has no other life beyond their needs.
The grandparent in your case left messages. That's appropriate. It's not appropriate to FB, call and then visit all within a short period of time. That shows absolutely NO respect for the providers free time and privacy.