Apparently I am not the norm. When I was off for 3 mos I did not take my oldest to dc at all, NOT ONE SINGLE DAY! I wanted him with me, to assure him that just because he has a brother, it doesn't make him less important. I would have never wanted him to be away from me during that transition. I had no problems with him retransitioning to dc when I returned to work. I don't get it, probably never will.
