Originally Posted by blandino:
This is going to sound harsh, but it always helps me. If push came to shove, your DCF would look out for themselves before they would look out for you. If sending their children to you was creating as much stress for them, as this situation is for your family, they wouldn't hesitate to find alternate childcare. So you need to look out for your family first and foremost, as your DCF would do for themselves.
Thanks. I am just looking for some support. I feel awful and am scared but I am putting my family first and I probably should have months ago. I have been reading over this board and is awesome. I wish I found it sooner so I could hav grown a backbone!