Originally Posted by AmyKidsCo:
I've had my share of biters, including my own children and grandchildren, so I know how hard it is. As long as it's developmentally appropriate for the child I don't get too upset. It's when a child who should've grown out of the biting stage (like my 5 yr old granddaughter) bites someone that I freak out. 
I almost want to put something in writing to the bitee's mom. She's been pretty patient, but our paths are diverging on how it should be handled. Of course, every time it happens, it's "proof" to her that I'm not being firm enough. She sees her baby as a victim, which I get and empathize with.
I have a call in to my licenser because this all could blow-up in my face. I think some sort of letter, cc'd to my licenser, might be a proactive step?
Can someone help me with that, and Amy, can I borrow some wording from your policy?