Easy to solve.
Have Mom put her DOWN on the floor... turn her back
quickly and walk out. Do not TAKE her from her mom. TAKE her from the floor. This tells the child the Mom is leaving her not you taking her from her Mom. Big difference
When Mom has put her down and turns quickly you put on your
face and say "Bye Mommy ... Be good at work today".
Secondly... if you have a cell phone... take her to a spot where you can record her RIGHT after Mom leaves. Tape her for 30 seconds or so and then send it to her right away. Put in the subject line "
Breaker Breaker Faker Faker"
It will hit the Moms phone before she gets a couple of blocks away.
It only takes ONE time of showing she went from cry to calm and then you don't have to discuss it anymore.
Don't ever take a child kicking and screaming. Make the parent put the kid down. If it's an older kid that can get back to the door just put your body in between the kid and the door and put your eyes straight forward with NO expression. Let them have their
Oscar Winning Performance
to an audience that is stoned face.
Soon as they are done say "You done?"
Cool Fool
let's go eat some muffins.
