Originally Posted by SilverSabre25:
A two year old sucking her thumb doesn't seem too old to me--I don't think you have to worry until she's a bit older and by then, she'll be better able to understand.
You say that she is willing to play some things...they all sounds like very solitary things she likes to do. Is your concern that she won't play "with" the other kids?
If that's the case, remember that she's still VERY young and kids don't learn cooperative play until 3 or 4. She's still strongly into solo play and parallel play. If she prefers to do things on her own, that's fine, she'll figure it out eventually!
What you described doesn't sound concerning to me at all. She does do some things, she doesn't get upset when she's not playing, she might just be a personality that doesn't need a lot of interpersonal interaction.
I agree 100% with SilverSabre
