I used to have a treasure box and reward systems and behavior charts etc...but the kids got more focused on doing the right thing so they can get something in return and I spent too much time maintaining the system. I dont think that is teaching young children good life lessons nor is it a good use of my time. These types of methods work for some and I think you should try them if you think it will help. We all learn from trial and error. I would not have come to my opinion/conclusion without excitedly planning and implimenting many of these systems throughout the years. I do reward good behavior with a treat every now and then so I am not saying there is no place for rewards. But I do not like to use them on a regular basis to get kids to do what I ask.

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