Originally Posted by hwichlaz:
She old enough to understand why that's not okay. I'd make her earn the privilege of being out of her room during pick up time. Otherwise, she needs to play quietly in her room at that time. If she is uncooperative there need to be consequences.
Do this! Also, don't wait for parents to leave to put her in time out! She is still getting her reward until the parent leaves. Put her in time out the moment the behavior happens-obviously, the attention she gets while the parent is present is worth the time out that she KNOWS is coming. Take away that attention the moment that the negative behavior occurs.