Originally Posted by Michelle:
The only advice I have is to please stay in contact with your friends on here either through email, text or messenger
I think most of the ladies here are genuine and loving friends
I think everyone needs to read posts 3 different ways..lets say you are at the store and some lady comes up to you and says:
"Hey nice hat" (snarky)
"Hey nice hat" ( lovingly)
"Hey nice hat" ( laughing)
in person, you can tell by the tone of voice what they mean..
but online... you can't ..so just give people the benefit of doubt
I joke around a lot and my kids friends say I am lovingly sarcastic..
After some time, members will get to know each others personalities and there would not be so much drama on here if people didn't want to pick each other apart
I hope you can stay and give us another chance!
This is SO true! I'm guilty of this and this has also happened to me. Just last week I posted a question and something someone said could be construed as rude so I commented that it was rude, but it turns out they didn't mean to sound rude. Also, someone on here has taken something that I have said the wrong way, I was being nice, but they thought otherwise and that person never responds to anything I say anymore. But with all the members on here and all the different personalities, it's bound to happen although I wish it didn't!