Tell the hubster to suck it up & quit his whining or you will give him timeout! He is teaching his children a disservice by openly showing disrespect for their mother. Period. I'm sure you support (on not complain) things about him. I would advise him, he is free to get a job bringing in $1000 a week & you can search for one making only $500 if he prefers. If he comes up with a better solution you will definitely be on board with it. If he has none, he can stop with the me, me, me! (Maybe I'm coming off a little harsh, but I think you get what I'm saying.)

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