Originally Posted by mac60:
I'll rephrase this, since you all took it to the extreme and now have this kid sitting on a blanket square for 9/10 hours a day.............Whenever there would be opportunity for free play, this child would be sitting on a small blanket with unbreakable toys. Still part of the group, but limited in play items. Wait, that is what is called discipline, and golly gees we can't do that now can we.
How did anyone "take it to the extreme" ?
YOU said,
"but he would be having a week of his own "private" play spot, on a small blanket folded about 3' x 4', with very limited toys, unbreakable ones, and that is where he would be while in care. And while he was outside, he would have a "private" play spot outside too"
Sounds to me like that would be all day, every day for a week. So, if you didn't mean all day, you should have clarified that and nobody would have "taken it to the extreme"
Of course, once again, you will say you are being bullied here, but for the record, it is how you state things that gets people to be in disagreement with you.