I have started keeping a diary of her behavior so when she is seen in 3 moths they can have a better look at what's going on. We have changed her diet several times hoping that would help. One of our other children has Celiacs disease so she has been on a gluten free diet for a few months now also excluding all dyes.
We need a referral to see any specialist.
I can call her ped to see if that might help and if maybe we can get in sooner to see a neuropsychologist than the specialist a few hours away. So far she hasn't been evaluated for OCD. I never thought of that because she doesn't count things a certain number of times exc. I will absolutely keep that in mind when I talk to them!
I have tried giving her rewards for being good during pick up time. I will remind her right before I open the door but if pick up time lasts more than 2-3 minutes then its like she completely forgets. Once they leave I will tell her you lost out on your reward. Sometimes she will be upset but most of the time she doesn't care.
I don't have another adult here during pick up time for someone to take her to another room