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Heidi 07:54 AM 09-11-2013
I just thought of something else. Can you make a deal with her, that if she plays nicely during pick ups, she can earn 10 minutes of one-on-one with mommy as soon as the other kids go home?

You will play whatever game SHE wants, HER rules, for TEN minutes! Then, tell her exactly what she has to do to earn that. Whenever a parent comes in, she has to go sit at the table and color (or another specific activity).

During her one-on-one time, make sure there's no interruptions, even if it means parking your other children in front of a screen for that 10 minutes. Go in her room with her and let her be in charge for that long.

If she even messes up a little, though, she doesn't get the special time. She sounds like a smart little girl and she will push to see if you cave.
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