Originally Posted by Baby Beluga:
I go about my normal day. I don't wake anyone early, don't keep anyone up, etc for the very reason you mentioned.
Yes, if they wanted to pick up during nap time once in a while, I would just wake up the child on arrival and carry and hand over the child. No way would I wake them up early enough to feed them a snack or do a diaper. Parents should plan that they will actually care for their child after they take them. Except for tiny babies, kids can eat a snack in the car provided by the parent. They shouldn't be taking a child to a place they can't change the diaper.
Once in a while I get a child ready for pick up, but generally speaking, no.
If they had a stinky dipe during nap though, I do offer to change the child before the child leaves--too unpleasant for the child.