Thread: So Mad Ugh
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professionalmom 03:47 PM 06-28-2010
Originally Posted by MarinaVanessa:
Yes, this is what I would do also. Akward silences seem to work well. The jig is up lady. I agree that if you do continue to care for her daughter you should ask for payment in advance from now on. You don't want to get jipped ... how does she expect you to trust her if she has in fact already lied to you?
And when she says, "Why do I have to pay in advance all of a sudden. I've always paid you." Simply state, "Yes. And I appreciate that. However, since you have lied to me and I can't trust you to be honest with me, I certainly can't TRUST that you will pay me. You broke the trust. So I need payment up front. This is what happens when you practice to deceive." But make sure to follow up with the raised eyebrows, smile, and awkward silence.
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