Originally Posted by CountryRoads:
Mom mentioned awhile back that she's worried he is on the spectrum for autism. She sent me a message apologizing and is trying to think of a way to make drop off easier. He really just acts up when she's around. Example: when mom tries to take off his hat and coat, he throws a massive fit. She then lets him keep them on and I remove them after she leaves.
Any ideas on how to make drop-off easier for everybody?
He has learned that all he has to do is throw a fit and he will eventually get his way. It’s a learned behavior. As lovesmykiddos said bye bye outside will solve this. Hand child over, good bye mom and it should resolve itself in a few weeks.