Providers do get attached to their kiddos and hate to see them move on, BUT don't let it be a deterrent as to your decision. Just be honest and use a very common line that providers use.....'I'm sorry but I don't believe your program fits my child's needs any longer'.
I wish you the best. I truly do. Change comes into everyone's lives but it's so hard to help little ones who go through it. They can act out in a myriad of ways. One of my dcgs' family brought a new baby into the mix and dad moved out when the baby was a week old. Dcg went through so much emotional turmoil and misbehavior for a few months.
It was so sad to see and she was so frustrating to work with but dcps are now reconnecting and dcg is 6 months older, doing much better! While it may not be a normal reaction to a horrible(especially through the eyes of a child)situation change, it certainly was not unexpected.
I kind of find the term 'normal' to be irrelevant. Not one child is like another. So wth IS normal anyways??
