I'm actually the only person who responded to that wondering why mom was still sending them if she felt they were being neglected...
I pulled my youngest child IMMEDIATELY from the one day care we had her in because I was unhappy with the care. I didn't keep sending her. And I certainly wouldn't have sent her if I felt her very basic needs (ie: food and water) were not being met. I think the mother here shot herself in the foot with her comments.
That said, I believe the day care was negligent. If the boys were not listening and whatever, mom should have been called for pick up. It sounds as if they are a handful - they are the only ones who didn't listen and keep their shirts on, they are the only ones who got burned...