I don't allow breakfast after 8am and I expect the children to have eaten before then. It's disruptive to the group to have one child eaten when the rest aren't. They don't understand why Johnny gets to eat and they don't. You may be arriving at 9am but some of those children have already been there for hours with no concept of time other than knowing that first we play, then we snack, then we go outside, then we have lunch, etc etc. If I let a child eat here at 9am the whole crew would assume it was snacktime which would throw my whole day off. For me personally there is a safety risk as well since we eat in a different room from my daycare space.
I think you need to get up a few minutes early and feed your son at home.
