Originally Posted by Willow:
It is no more abnormal than thumb sucking, tag rubbing, fuzzy picking, hair twirling or paci use is.
It's a self soothing/anxiety reducing behavior. I would never punish, shame or restrict a child for or from something like that.
If you feel the need to do something, ask the child if he needs a hug in those moments. Because that's all he is seeking and getting from doing what he's doing with the chewing.
While I agree to a certain extent (this is pretty extreme, all stuffed toys, dress up clothing, he will even chew other children's clothing if they are near him) He has chewed his car seat straps to the point that they are frayed. (not even going there about how loose they are and how dcp's aren't replacing them)
it is ALL DAY LONG EVERY DAY. I cannot constantly hug him. He is also NOT an affectionate child, even with his parents.
He does it 24/7, here, home, grandmas, all the same. So 24/7 anxiety?