Awww it sounds like you need a break from difficult babies - I can relate. I once almost quit babies because of one very hard baby.
Instead wound up with 2 new WONDERFUL babies - and a very hard toddler (formerly the very hard baby). Then I had 2 wonderful toddlers, a nice new baby ... and a very hard 2 year old. He finally went off to pre-school at 3. now the 2 wonderful babies that I almost didn’t take are my wonderful little preschoolers.
My point is that some kids are just hard even from the beginning. You can try to resolve it with the twins or maybe let them go and begin again with a new baby. I’d rather put in the work with a new baby than starting a new 18 month old to fill the spot while continuing with the difficult twins.
Either way I would focus on improving the situation with the twins. Maybe they need more one on one attention? Maybe the parents can work on this also by spending more one on one time with each child.
Good luck and hang in there.

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