Every provider has their own personal line they don't want interviewees crossing. Only you know where that line is. If you feel questions are getting too personal, then avoid answering them. I dislike when the first question that pops out is cost but it's also one of the most important things parents are going to want to know so there's really no way to avoid that.
I had one mom ask me 'when you and your dh argue or fight, where do you do it? Do you do it in front of the kids?' I have no idea how I answered, it was years ago. But I remember thinking WTH kind of question is that?
But most questions I'd be pretty upfront and open about; after all, their LO could possibly be spending as much awake time with you as at home.

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