Once they are married, then it should be okay to provide info to her. BUT, because they are not yet married, then it should NOT be addressed to her. She is NOT the parent, or step-parent YET and may never be....who knows they may end up breaking up before they ever marry.

IMO, the daycare should be honoring the request of the Mother. Providing info to the fiance is like providing info to a girlfriend...and is probably not even legal if the Mother has requested that it not be addresses to her.

OP....I would write a letter to the daycare, not just request verbally. Keep a copy of the written communication you send requesting they not provide info to the fiance. If they continue to address info to her, you then will have legal recourse.

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