Originally Posted by Crystal:
Legomom, I did not make my first post to be flammatory. I sincerely feel that any daycare child playing on a bed with a 15 year old dcs COULD end up being a liability. No matter the relationship you have with the family, all it takes is one false, innocently misunderstood "touch" and for dcg to report that to her parents. Your relationship, professional or not, would be over and there would likely be criminal charges pressed against your son. It doesn't have to be true for it to be believed and reported.
No matter how much they trust you and your son, it COULD happen. It has happened with trusted family members in some cases, why would you think it could not happen with you, your son and your child care/personal relationships?
I am very sorry your son got hurt. I understand that it is difficult to see your own child in pain. But, this happened by a small child, clearly unintenionally, I think I would just let it go if I were you.
I agree except I think the same scenario of false accusations happens with males and no mention of a bed is even involved. FALSE accusations is why I never wanted my husband around dck and what worries me more about males in general than actually doing it.
If it were a girl playing in her room w the dcg this wouldn't be a topic. I've seen ppl mention dck playing in their own children's room. It's pretty hypocritical in light of the men in daycare discussion.