Originally Posted by Blackcat31:
That's what I was thinking and here is how I would handle it;
"Hmm, DCD/DCM I don't see any of that type of behavior at home. He's doing great here! If I do have any issues though I'll be sure to mention them. Have a good day! Bye!"
Rinse and repeat.
Like Diva said, some parents now days are OVERLY involved and almost always about the wrong things. 
I have a group of boys right now that are all either new 4yr olds or 3.5 nearing 4 and ALL of them seem to be going through this inner change where they are really struggling to regulate themselves and their emotions. They bounce from clingy to "get away from me" in 3 seconds and cover the entire gamut of teenage angst during a 4 minute drop off.
I think this DCK is growing, aging and maturing. He isn't always going to be the same 2 yr old they've always had.
Since they are the ones that think he has an issue, let them deal You don't have an issue with him in care so.... 
I like this. Mom never mentioned anything to me. No questions, concerns, nothing. It was dad who did. Between my thoughts of DCB adjusting and doing well, and DCM's lack of questions and concerns I was quite surprised yesterday.
Dad said he is the more direct one and mom is more shy and less direct.