It is next to impossible to see everything all the time in group care. I only have 5 kids and there are times when my back is turned or I have to use the washroom. It is inevitable. Maybe with a biter he would have become more of a shadow but you live and you learn so don’t beat yourself up.

My guess is she lashed out and now regrets it and realizes that despite the bites you offered high quality care and truly loved their child. As a mom that would mean a lot more to me and instead of lashing out I would have tried to help you find a solution.

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