Help! I have a super nosy will never leave daycare mom. She picks up everyday and thinks that I should be able to stand there and chit chat with her for 20 minutes every day. She is nice so for awhile it wasn't that bad but now that I am trying to get my own kids fed for the night so we can get to there activities at night I am getting to my boiling point! I will literally walk off and say have a good night and she just stands there confused. I do an infant gram daily that i send home with my parents (bottles how much they ate and when, diaper changes, there mood). So, i feel like unless there is an issue i shouldn't have to chat with you for 20 minutes. Plus, she is one those parents that i always feel is probing around for information so i'm getting to hate even talking to her.
She sends her 5 month old in size one diapers that she is constantly exploding out of. And then for extra outfits she sends me clothes with poop stains on them. She tends to try to discipline my own children. If i am running late for supper i will let my kids have a snack to tie them over and she will always be so freaking nosy like are you guys suppose to eat snack, are you guys eating supper. its like leave my kids alone if they are eating supper should you be even interrupting them. And it is so annoying b/c she won't discipline her older kids when they come with at pick up. One time the little boy climbed on top of our glass patio table and she did nothing or he hops in my boys power wheels i told him to get out and he started crying and she said oh you made him cry. Not every toy is for your kids enjoyment. Plus, she will let her kids (who do not come to my daycare) go play in the back yard when she drops off in the morning! Is it just me or is this just rude? We are not even in the backyard. Plus, she is SUPER NOSY.
I think she thinks i should only have one infant but I am allowed to have up to two infants. so i recently took on an infant and yesterday when she came to pick up the other baby started crying so i said have a good night baby is crying. As i am walking away she is like oh i didn't know you had another infant. I said yes i took on another one. She asked a question and i just walked away. Get the hint i don't think i have to run by every kid that i take into my daycare. We also do remodeling in our house from time to time and she will come in the house to go look at it even though she knows daycare is downstairs. even once she had the nerve to poke her head in our bedroom! uggh does anyone else hate the feeling of parents just think b/c they pay you that they can do whatever, you no longer have privacy, and that you should have to chit chat for a half hour every day.
We do daycare downstairs so our childrens rooms are off limits so there nice toys don't get broken. And i even have to go as far as sending out reminders in the newsletters that no your child can not play with our kids $200 power wheels. its like they think everything in there house is for there kid and they should get to play with it!
So frustrated any advice would be appreciated
