I personally feel that this issue is a little petty. I'm not trying to be rude, but I don't see what the big deal is. She lives with your ex, they're planning on getting married, she's part of your son's life - to the point she helps with picking up/dropping off - so WHY does it bother you if daycare information is addressed to her? She's going to see it anyways. This doesn't seem like alegal or confidentiality issue at all, it seems much more like a jealousy issue to me. Sorry if I'm wrong.

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