Originally Posted by Catherder:
Why do people keep thinking it is my responsibility to make up for other peoples life choices with my income??? I just don't understand that.
Because if you do child care you should do it for free. It's our obligation to society to do free.
It should not be about OUR kids and OUR livlihood. In order for it to be honorable it has to be for OTHER people's families. That's what's really important. What we do for OTHERS for free.
Too bad that thought process doesn't get applied to the ones who already get free. Maybe it's time to say to them that they shouldn't be asking for help for their kids they should be doing free for others.
It's NOT about money for us... but it's okay for it to be about money for the ones who get free money.
That makes a load of sense to me.
