Time to let him go because he clearly isn't happy there? Dcm will find out he's manipulating her to get his way because it's what works. No matter where she leaves him. If she's reinforcing bad behavior this is a no-win for you. If they're questioning everything you're doing, again a no-win for you. He's trying to manipulate everyone in his life to the way he wants life to be and right now he's caught between 1 place where he's being babied and given treats for bad behavior, and your place where you're striving to teach him independence and social/self-help skills.

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