((hugs)) I have one too! I do the straight to the consequence with her. I've been doing it that way since the beginning of October-she still pushes buttons at least 3 times a day. Whatever. The consequence happens, she goes off and gets all worked up and has her fit, we move on without her. Sometimes she cares that we are doing something "fun" and sometimes she doesn't. I have 1 dcb that will cover his ears when she is having a fit and give her the evil eye
. It has taken me awhile to get myself to not say things when they are having a fit, but to just walk away. I find that I don't get as frustrated tho and that is a good thing. They may or may not get over it, but I don't need to let it get to me.