Originally Posted by Joyce:
I find I'm usually with you on things you say, but I draw the line here. You're generalizing when you say effeminate men, or men who have predominantly female jobs are in denial about being gay. Or that their wives are in denial that their husband is gay. I find that to be a very narrow-minded statement.
That's not actually what I said. I mentioned a personal preference including cops who are def. The opposite of a female role. I do think that guy on toddlers n tiaras is gay, narrow minded or not.
Btw, when I initially mentioned women in denial, I was referring to the fact that when something does happen to a child, women are often in denial that their own husband or male in their life would be capable of doing such a thing. Therefore, they look for someone else to blame and male caregivers are vulnerable in that situation.