Thanks for your response. I *know* I probably should have her eating only in the dining room, but Dh and I like eating in the livingroom as well and don't really want to switch. It's not even that we are watching tv while eating, it's just so much more comfy...hahaha. Maybe this is what I need to do, though. I agree with you that i don't want the dck to get mad about it, with just having the two that I currently have, they barely seem to notice, so I'm kind of hoping that's how it is with the other two.
Also, she will take longer to eat than other children because of medical issues, so I don't think having others around will make her go any faster, I wish...
Katy