I probably wouldn't take his lovey unless he was misbehaving with his lovey at nap time.
I would separate him completely from the other kids each time he misbehaves, maybe have a small box of toys or books to do by himself until he learns to listen and behave appropriately, if he continues to misbehave take the box away OR tell him he will have to take a nap. His behavior is set in it could take some time for him to understand but if it's too bad and if you have a trial period terminating may be your next option.

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