It could just be that the educators are "rougher" than you are because they need to be faster. Has he ever had a rash on his bum since he started? That can also cause kids to fear diaper changes. Also he has to get used to a stranger changing him so he might be going through a phase of being "shy" about that. I have a child in my care that started doing this and he is also 2. It started after he had a few really bad poops where he ended up with a red sore bum. It hurt a lot to wipe him so now every time I change him he is anticipating it hurting. I never once suspected abuse at home.

I would not say that this would be a symptom of molestation at all in my opinion.

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