Originally Posted by daycare:
perhaps this is why my marriage is failing. because we stopped living for each other and lost focus on us. we lived each day for our children and stopped working on us. Marriage needs work and time without children.
next weekend I will go away with my husband to a couples retreat and there will be NOOOOOO children.
I really think it is important. It is so easy to let life (kids included) get in the way, and not work on our marriage. And marriage IS work.