Thanks everyone for the help!
Two more years and my debt is paid to my family. I can't make them leave since they kept their name on the deed
(we are basically paying them for the house)
I don't mind the daycare Most of the time. But it kills me that my dds and dh hate it. In fact I find my job to be wonderful when all 3 of them are not here.
Younger dd is off to school in the fall so most of my day is going to be a breeze. This is what I'm looking forward to right now, which is terrible, since I started DC to earn a living and be home with them.
It does irritate me considerably when I have to deal with parents ignoring policies or trying to get away with something.